Why do guys worry about bedroom skills?
Because ALL men fear inadequacy. We mainly worry whether our partners are actually satisfied, or just faking it. We want to be sure that we’re giving our partners the BEST SEX they’ve ever had, because to us this means that we aren’t in danger of being replaced. Unfortunately, our preoccupation with performance usually distracts us from being present — which is all our partners usually want from us in the first place. So ironically, worrying that we’re not good enough becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, but for reasons we might NEVER suspect…. such as lack or romance, intimacy, and honesty.